My Ultimate Chinito Idol is Married

I try to take the pain away by finding someone new. But then I came to realize no one compares to you and even if I look around pretending not to cry I’ll always go back to the day you finally said “I DO”

His name is Christopher John Alandy Dy Tiu. But we all know him as Chris Tiu right? He’s a basketball player. He’s handsome and he has a killer smile ^__^ He’s actually a chinito type guy.

It was 3 years ago when I started to idolize him. That’s nothing compare to his long time fans.

I think its not just being a fan. But we the FANS know that FANS are just FANS.

Nothing more, and nothing less. We cannot enter their personal lives and manage it by our own will.

Judge him? Yes FANS are allowed and free to judge their idols. But remember that too much of “NEGA JUDGING” can lead to being a “HATERS” and haters stands for “Having Anger Towards Everyone’s Reaching Success”

Yes He’s married. And I guess for him getting married is one of his successions in life. Am I hurt? Admit it or not YES I’M HURT. Why? Well I just found out about this last October 2, 2013 and he gets married this last September 7, 2013 in Vancouver Canada. But in the other hand, I’m also happy for both of them ^_^

Hello? I’m just a FAN. Not that I’m degrading all the fans out there. But I’m just telling the TRUTH. We should be happy that he’s finally married to his longtime girlfriend. They are happy so we should be ^_^

No dramas anymore and negative actions…

No scratching of posters on the wall and throwing them all…

No bitter words whenever you saw him on television…

I remember my friend Cathlen Patingan, when she found out that Chris Tiu is already married….

She cries and cries and she can’t accept the truth…

And I guess what she feel is worst than a heartbreak…

OA right?

Well, if I know all the DIE HARD FANS are NORMALLY like that…

Dontcha worry Cath. Maybe someday you’ll find a guy like our idol ^__^

I repeat, we the FANS are just FANS. We cannot blame them in what they are doing they have their own lives to live out. We don’t OWN them; we just ADMIRE them for who they are and NOT for whom we want them to be.

What hurts the most?? It’s when you wake up from a dream like in FAIRYTALE and you face the REALITY that you are just a fan. Ok let’s say we admire them so much, but we have to know our LIMITS as a fan so we won’t get hurt too much whenever things happen like this.

I remember one time, I tried to stop from fan girling ‘coz I know it’s going to hurt me. I keep myself busy in study and in church. But then I ask myself “why do I have to do that?”

Sakin lang pala nakadepende kung masasaktan ako o hindi. Pwede naman palang HUMANGA ng hindi ka nasasaktan. I mean, I’ll just support them in their career and that’s it. Why do I have to enter their personal lives and make PAKIELAM? When I know that I’m just a FAN? And so I continue admiring them ^__^ There’s nothing WRONG of being a FAN. We just have to know our limits. “The DO’s and DON’T’s”

Just bare this in mind “Maybe when you also get married marami ding manghihinayang, malulungkot at wala na silang magagawa dun. And you can’t CHANGE your status just for the sake of OTHERS. You choose to marry that person that you LOVE. What they have to do is to ACCEPT the FACT that you’re already married and just be happy on it.”

By the way, as part of TIUNATICS ANGELS. I have here the reactions from some of his fans ^__^

Here they are.

“Ahmm, sa totoo lang nung nalaman ko yung news hindi ko alam kung good news o bad news. Sobra akong nalungkot kasi as fan humanga talaga ako sakania. Dumating sa point na sabi nila obsessed na daw ako sakanya syempre ako di ko matanggi yun kasi 4 years ko syang hinangaan. Nandun na sa point na nag collect ako na may kinalaman sakanya. Nalungkot ako na nagpakasal na nga sya hanggang ngayon at alam ng ibang tiunatics kung gano ako ka-affected. Hirap man tanggapin pero sya talaga ideal man ko ^_^ I’m here for Chris no matter what happen. Kaasar ka Chris ang sabi mo sa 30 ka pa mag sesettle down pangarap ko pa naman na Makita ka bago ka ikasal. Pero sa nangyari nalungkot talaga ako. I hope bumalik agad ung kilig factor ko sayo. Ideal man padin kita. Congrats BEST BEST BEST wishes ^__^”

~Cathlen Patingan

“I’m so happy for him. Don’t be sad angels, that’s why we are his fans dapat supportive tayo sakanya. Yeah I dream of having a guy like him but not literally him. HE will still my IDOL and my inspiration. ^^”

~Joanah

“Hi angels. I’m so happy for our idol PAPA TIU <3 Let’s be happy for him J Sana maging successful sila ni Mrs. Clarisse Ong-Tiu J “

~Haze

“Masaya ako para sakanila. Sana tumagal sila ^_^”

~Jessa June Jolo Seguiban

“At first I don’t know what to feel, but now I think dapat I should be happy for him. If he’s happy already with the person he really love, me too I’m happy for them. I have to be magnimous even though I can’t.”

~Denise

“Though married na sya, suprtado padin natin sya diba? Kahit ako di pa maka recover. Matatanggap ko din ^_^”

~Kim Marie Labriaga

“Masaya na sya kaya dapat be happy din tayo para sakanya. Ilang taon natin syang minahal at dapat magpatuloy yun. Kasi pwede pa din naman natin syang mahalin tulad ng dati. Walang magbabago”

~Karen Manlapas Pizon

“Nung nalaman kong ikinasal nap ala si TIU nagulat ako dahil di’ko talaga alam. Parang gusto kong umiyak dahil sa tuwa at gulat. Pero Masaya ako para sakanila syempre. Looking forward for Chris Tiu JR>”

~Grace Llagoso